At the 21st century prom, not even the corsage is sacred. That baby’s breath, it turns out, may actually be a cover for contraband.
That’s why, as teenagers become ever more resourceful, local schools are cracking down at dances on everything from chapstick to mouthwash, from deodorant to gum.
When students arrive at the Design Galleria in San Francisco, they will be patted down, their bags searched. Chaperones will rummage through corsages and boutonnieres for any illegal substance.
Adhering to a strict zero-tolerance policy, Anderson said chaperones will leave no stone unturned — or stoner, as the case may be.
Prescription medication such as inhalers or birth control pills must be checked at the front and administered only under the supervision of a chaperone.
The stricter-than-ever rules, she said, are an indication of the times. Drug use among teens is more prevalent than it was even during her days as a student in the rebellious 1960s.
And it’s not just Vintage. Schools across the county are upping their precautions in preparation for the prom.
“Students are very creative,” said Barbara Franco, Napa High principal, earlier this year. “We want to have safe events. … When information comes to us through a reliable source, then we respond to that.”
Students including Mary-Kathryn Peck at Napa High call the policy “obscene.”
“It’s kind of stupid that we have to be forced to dance without chapstick because someone once used it to hide drugs,” said Barker.
“They kind of went over the top,” said Brian Perry, a senior at Napa High.
Anderson defends the rules, however, explaining that parents entrust her with the safety of their children.
“I hold a tight ship, and I would much rather have people blame me for being too strict than not strict enough,” she said.
Some smaller schools rely primarily on their familiarity with students to recognize unusual behavior.
Monica Tipton, principal at New Technology High School, said the school forbids liquids and medications, “but we don’t search handbags or anything as they come in.”
“We could, if we felt there was a need to,” she added. “It’s not that we turn a blind eye to those things. It’s that kids know we are watching.”
At Justin-Siena High School, Dean of Students Steve Meyer said chaperones don’t ban meds, but keep an eye out for unusual behavior. He also keeps a breathalyzer handy, and is trained to conduct a sobriety test.
Though he insists he trusts his students, Bob Yeend, Justin-Siena junior class moderator, acknowledged, “If a student really
Despite the admitted need for increased vigilance, school officials said students typically behave, given the threat of not being able to walk the stage at graduation.
Additional precautions — such as scheduling school meetings before the prom, having a deluge of chaperones and enforcing a policy that prohibits students from leaving prom early — keep the majority of students in line, according to administrators.
‘Freak’ out
Additional rules extend all the way from dress to the type of dance allowed.
A sign above Napa High’s Activities Office depicts two wriggling stick figures. The sign declares, “No freaking.”
The policy, implemented at local schools across the county, refers to a particularly raunchy style of dance. Vintage High Activities Director Gail Sims describes freaking as a modern style of “bump and grind.”
“I don’t think our parents’ generation would even be able to make it at today’s dances,” Barker said with a laugh. “My mom doesn’t even know what freaking is.”
At her prom, one student danced with the sign itself, said Barker. Upside down, the stick figures demonstrated an especially vulgar pose.
“We say no freaking, and we try to enforce it,” said Sims, “but it’s a crazy bunch of kids, and when you get 600-plus students out there enjoying the dance, all we can do is do our best to make it appropriate.”
“We’re not prudes,” added Sims, “and we understand that each generation has their own style of pop dancing. We just don’t want it too sexual on the dance floor.”
Meyer said at Justin-Siena, chaperones “walk around and try to keep them as separated as they can.”
Chaperones at prom must also screen for inappropriate attire, said Sims.
Young men should wear tuxedos, she said, though suits are acceptable as well.
No zoot suits, as chains are not allowed.
“They must remain fully clothed,” added Sims. “Young men can only take off their jackets.”
Ladies’ formalwear must also be appropriate, she said, and dresses may not be lifted above the waist.
In language students might understand, Sims explained: Dresses similar to those worn at the Oscars are acceptable. Those worn at the MTV Awards are not. The Grammies are a gray area, she said, noting that this year’s Grammies were more tasteful than most.
Meyer said with a sigh, “I think through the years things have definitely changed. … Every adult should go to a high school dance and experience it and see what today’s society is like. It might help them understand teenagers a little better.”
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